The Uncool Side of Social Media

Some days ago on twitter, everyone was retweeting a series of tweets from one babe (let’s call her Miss B). What I picked out from the tweets was that her friend (let’s call her Miss J) stole her box of clothes from her room and she decided to come on Twitter to shame the babe. According to Miss B, she has been so good to this Miss J, the girl confided in her that she had an addiction to masturbation and pornography and she also had some daddy issues.  What I really don’t understand is how someone thinks the best way to report stolen items is Twitter and not a police station or better still a higher authority. Why Twitter?

In this age of social media, I have come to realize that we are all naked prey on the World Wide Web. Now everybody tweets anything, If it gets you followers, why not, if not? Then there is this stupid mantra, ’It’s just twitter don’t take it too serious’. No its not!!!
If someone lets you in on their deepest secret, the right thing to do is keep shut about it no matter the provocation. What annoyed me the most was when she tweeted, ‘I was your friend in your time of need’. No you were not!!! You just wanted her story, so you could use her as an anonymous example in the next ungodly conversation you find yourself in.  
It’s funny how women fight so that the male folks can take us seriously and one babe somewhere behind her screen chooses to throw it all away with her series of tweets and pettiness . You know what I have learnt from men? They let things go, they don’t snitch on their own.
I have no respect for people who throw relationships and friendships away just because. It’s all shades and hues of annoying. I am of the honest opinion that if your friend messes up, sort out your issues in private , no one wants to hear the gory details, don’t come on social media and spread your dirty paeintttt, pata gi gan or obante!!!!!  You know it’s called social media for a reason?
At the end of the day, all these drama is just for some silly retweets, mentions, favorites, lols and if its actually funny ‘LMAO’
What’s my advice?                                                                 
All these #bestie #bffs #bestfriendsforever  #mybestboo!! no be am at all. If you have any secrets, I take God beg you, don’t tell anybody especially if you know they are loud mouthed.
Oya kneel down let me pray for you..
*hold your head and say after me!!*
FAAAAAAADDAAAA!! May I never open up to friends that would come and discuss my matter to strangers on Twitter.
In fact, may they never see my break light..
Can I hear a big amen, sumbori?
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I am sorry about my long absence around here..
Do have a lovely weekend, guys..
                                                                               Love,
                                                                               Ifeoma N. 

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