I’m a blog junkie and one of my favorite blogs is
On-Air-Personality Toke Makinwa’s blog.
On Wednesday s, she has this vlog series that she hosts and for
some reason, I find myself looking forward for it. I watched one of the vlogs
which she titled, ‘Intervention’. Let me give a summary of what she spoke
about:
A babe sent a mail concerning her friend who has been dating
a married man for 5 years and the man
keeps complaining about his wife and he continues saying he wants a divorce,
meanwhile he has added a child or two to his football team!!!!!!!
Toke advised that she should better hurry up and leave the
man, that whether she likes it or not, he will keep going back to his wife and
kids every night. At the end of the day, wifey wins?(I guess???). But what really
is the price? The fact that she gets to share the bed with him every night or
she cleans up after him when he messes up?
The knowledge that my spouse comes home to me and my kids
after cheating is no consolation. For me cheating is betrayal of trust which is
the real pain in any heart break. It’s just a case of bad investment, you can’t
tell me to stay because you keep coming home every night. It’s highly
unacceptable.
All this How about he remains faithful throughout the whole day and
later at night he warms my bed (you like the idea abi? *winks*)
I think this whole returning home at night is BS and in my
head, it is giving him a pat on the back.
Cheating on your partner is never OK!! Whether you come home
every night or once a week. Let’s stop calling a spade an agricultural tool, it’s
a freaking spade!!
You made promises; you took vows stick to it.
N.B: No cheating boo or hubby is allowed in my space. You
try me take you out mafia style, osiso. #aintnobodygattymfordat
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I am sorry I haven’t posted in a while, school work has been
stressful.
Please pardon me and my funny titles..
Can we all agree that I might be having identity crisis with
the blog template? Please let me know what you think of this one. A friend said
it looks like card board. Oh, well, the people I move with right?!
How has your week been? Let me know!!
Xoxo
Ifeoma
N.
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